Getting your Affairs in Order -My Twenty-Five Top Tips

Over 2023/24, as updated in 2025/26, I posted on LinkedIn 20 brief articles on the Background to/Content from my Book Your Last Gift – Getting Your Affairs in Order. With the 3 rd Edition of my Book in prospect, I have revised the List to make it 25 Top Tips, as set out below.

I want to begin by quoting a really good observation on my introductory post on 14 August 2023 “Preparing for Death – Starting the Conversation”, from Simon Lofthouse, Head of Private Client at Corbett Le Quesne: “A Will is just a small part of the end-of-life planning process. I always advocate lots of conversations so there are no surprises. Expectations can
be managed and education provided if things are complex.”

Indeed. While many people may assume that the process begins and ends with the Will (which may be too often left to gather dust in the solicitor’s vault, whereas of course it needs to be regularly reviewed and updated), the subject is so much broader than that. I love Simon’s suggestion of lots of conversations.

The List

  1. 1. My 20 Questions for you to Answer

    2. Avoiding the Negatives and Securing the Positives

    3. Relationships

    4. Lasting Powers of Attorney – and Medical Wishes

    5. Why don’t People Make a Will?

    6. Your Will – The Executor(s): Choosing Wisely

    7. Your Will – The Essentials

    8. Preparing for the End

    9. Funeral Arrangements

    10. The Death Certificate: What is it and How does One Get it?

    11. Arrangements for Children, Dependents and Pets

    12. Digital Assets

    13. Ready Access to Cash pre-Probate – in Case of Need by your Surviving
    Spouse/Partner

    14. The Death Certificate: Having the Necessary Information/Documents.

    15. People to Contact

    16. Interests in one or more Businesses and/or Management of Charities, Associations
    etc.
    17. Inheritance Tax (IHT) Planning
    18. Pensions

    19. Your House/Flat and your Home Contents – Dealing with Them Post-Death

    20. Charities Relief: Maximising the Post-tax Estate on Death

    21. The Foreign Element: (a) Domicile and Residence and (b) Property Owned Outside
    the UK

    22. Decluttering: Your Papers & Other ‘Stuff’

    23. Places to Visit/People to See

    24. Thinking about God and the After-life

    25. How are you Doing with Getting your Affairs in Order?

9. Funeral Arrangements

9. Funeral Arrangements

I wonder how many of my LinkedIn readers are well prepared?! Burial or cremation? You may have a clear preference, but have you made it clear which, together with any particular details (for example, the form it should take, where and who should be involved)? In my...

8. Preparing for the End

8. Preparing for the End

None of us of course knows when this will happen. There is a, perhaps surprising, statistic that approximately 25% of all deaths in England and Wales (at least, within the UK) are unexpected or sudden, whether caused by accident, violent assault and so on. That said,...

7. Your Will – The Essentials

7. Your Will – The Essentials

The vital things are clarity and certainty. The Will should be witnessed by two (disinterested) individuals both present with you, so they sign after you sign. Last week’s Post No. 7 discussed the all-important appointment of Executors. Stating your full name and...

6. Your Will – The Executors(s): Choosing Wisely

6. Your Will – The Executors(s): Choosing Wisely

I don’t know how often it happens that someone is surprised following a friend’s death to discover that he/she has been named as one or more Executors of a Will? It goes without saying that that should never occur. One should always ask the chosen Executors whether...

5. Why don’t People Make a Will?

5. Why don’t People Make a Will?

OK, some do. But it seems that around three out of five adults in the UK (59% or so) don’t have aWill. Failure to make any preparations for the aftermath of the one thing that’s certain in life (even taxes can be mitigated, if not avoided altogether) does seem a bit...

4. Lasting Powers of Attorney – and Medical Wishes

4. Lasting Powers of Attorney – and Medical Wishes

Mental incapacity, specifically dementia, is a sad fact of life for many people. Wherever you find yourself on the spectrum of life, I strongly recommend making a ‘Lasting Power of Attorney’ (LPA), which comes in two parts: • Property and Financial Affairs; and •...

3. Relationships

3. Relationships

For me this is definitely the No. 1 Priority in terms of Getting your Affairs in Order. Once that is done, it seems to me that, given the will (with a lower case ‘w’) and a fair wind, everything else can follow. Too often I come across cases, especially although not...

2. My Twenty Questions for you to Consider

2. My Twenty Questions for you to Consider

Building on (and embracing) what I have written above, have a go at the following quiz. If you can answer Yes to all or at least a clear majority of these questions, insofar as they apply to you, you are doing pretty well. But, in any case, reading my book Your Last...

1. Avoiding the Negatives and Securing the Positives

1. Avoiding the Negatives and Securing the Positives

We are all going to die – that much is certain. What we don’t know is when and in what circumstances. To that extent, we are power-less. But in a deeper and more meaningful way, we can be power-full, in the ability to shape what we will leave behind us when the dread...

Getting your Affairs in Order – My Twenty-Five Top Tips

Getting your Affairs in Order – My Twenty-Five Top Tips

Over 2023/24, as updated in 2025/26, I posted on LinkedIn 20 brief articles on the Background to/Content from my Book Your Last Gift – Getting Your Affairs in Order. With the 3 rd Edition of my Book in prospect, I have revised the List to make it 25 Top Tips, as set...

17. Decluttering’: Your Papers and other ‘Stuff’

17. Decluttering’: Your Papers and other ‘Stuff’

The greater the extent to which you can leave this earth ‘tidily’, by which I mean having taken steps to sort out what you own and to get rid of anything that is effectively useless or past its sell-by date (and which is not likely to wanted by anyone after you’ve...

15. Charities Relief: Maximising the Post-tax Estate on Death

15. Charities Relief: Maximising the Post-tax Estate on Death

Finance Act 2012 introduced a significant rule reducing from 40% to 36% the rate of Inheritance Tax (IHT) where at least 10% of the estate is left to UK registered charities. What is easily forgotten is that this is the ‘net estate’, that is after deducting the...

13. Inheritance Tax (IHT) Planning

13. Inheritance Tax (IHT) Planning

The first thing to say is that this is very much a specialist subject, so do get proper professional advice before you do anything. Second, I always used to say to clients (and now remind my wife and myself) that you should not give away too much to your children (or...

11. People to Contact

11. People to Contact

It’s probably (almost certainly) over simplistic to say that the world divides into two types of people: the organised and the disorganised. And you may be among the former when it comes to keeping contact details, not only of family and friends but also of...

8. Digital Assets

8. Digital Assets

These can present quite a challenge on death, as including:  Computer;  tablet/iPad;  mobile telephone;  social media; and  Dropbox and other facilities. The key thing of course is what happens with what is likely to be a variety of passwords. These would give...