Getting your Affairs in Order
– My Twenty Top Tips
Over late summer/autumn/early winter 2023 year I posted on LinkedIn twenty articles on the Background to/Content from my Book Your Last Gift – Getting Your Affairs in Order. These I am now updating, as follows. Over September, October and November I shall be posting on Linked In Nos. 1 through to 14, with a new series of postings to follow in December.
I want to begin by quoting a really good observation on my introductory post “Preparing for Death – Starting the Conversation” on Monday 14 August 2023, from Simon Lofthouse, Head of Private Client at Corbett Le Quesne:
“A Will is just a small part of the end-of-life planning process. I always advocate lots of conversations so there are no surprises. Expectations can be managed and education provided if things are complex.”
Indeed. While many people may assume that the process begins and ends with the Will (which may be too often left to gather dust in the solicitor’s vault, whereas of course it needs to be regularly reviewed and updated), the subject is so much broader than that. I love Simon’s suggestion of lots of conversations.
The List
- Relationships
2. Lasting Powers of Attorney – and Medical Wishes
3. Why don’t People Make a Will?
4. Your Will – The Executor(s): Choosing Wisely
5. Your Will – The Essentials
6. Funeral Arrangements
7. Arrangements for Children, Dependents and Pets
8. Digital Assets
9. Ready Access to Cash pre-Probate – in Case of Need by your Surviving
Spouse/Partner
10. The Death Certificate: Having the Necessary Information/Documents. - 11. People to Contact
12. Interests in one or more Businesses and/or Management of Charities,
Associations etc.
13. Inheritance Tax (IHT) Planning
14. Your House/Flat and your Home Contents – Dealing with Them Post-Death
15. Charities Relief: Maximising the Post-tax Estate on Death
16. The Territorial Aspect: Residence and Domicile, with Situs (Location) of Assets
17. Decluttering: Your Papers & Other ‘Stuff’
18. Places to Visit/People to See
19. Thinking about God and the After-life
20. How are you Doing with Getting your Affairs in Order?
20. How are You Doing with Getting Your Affairs in Order?
The focus of my book Your Last Gift – Getting Your Affairs in Order is a series of flexible downloadable Excel spreadsheets available from the website to which the purchaser is given a link. This is in the form of five Appendices to the book, as follows: • Personal...
19. Thinking about God and the After-life
While possibly not a subject you would expect to find in my book ‘Your Last Gift’, which is a practical guide to putting your affairs in order, I think that it is important for everyone, at least, to consider. This is not just because I am an ordained minister in the...
18. Places to Visit/People to See
Places you Want to Visit/Things to Do I have on my bookshelf ‘A Thousand Places to See before You Die’, by Patricia Schultz. The vast majority of these places I would yet like to visit I won’t manage. However, I have found it quite fun to check the book before taking...
17. Decluttering’: Your Papers and other ‘Stuff’
The greater the extent to which you can leave this earth ‘tidily’, by which I mean having taken steps to sort out what you own and to get rid of anything that is effectively useless or past its sell-by date (and which is not likely to wanted by anyone after you’ve...
16. The Territorial Aspect: Residence and Domicile, with Situs (Location) of Assets
This is a very brief guide to a very complex subject. Those professional advisers ‘in the know’ won’t need it, though one or two might have some observations to make. Others may find it helpful as an introduction which they can take further with their own advisers....
15. Charities Relief: Maximising the Post-tax Estate on Death
Finance Act 2012 introduced a significant rule reducing from 40% to 36% the rate of Inheritance Tax (IHT) where at least 10% of the estate is left to UK registered charities. What is easily forgotten is that this is the ‘net estate’, that is after deducting the...
14. Your House/Flat and Your Home Contents – Dealing with Them Post-Death
You may own or you may rent your home – and, indeed, any other residences, whether in the UK or abroad. The ownership or lease may be in your sole name or held jointly with someone else, for example your spouse or partner. Under English law, there are two types of...
13. Inheritance Tax (IHT) Planning
The first thing to say is that this is very much a specialist subject, so do get proper professional advice before you do anything. Second, I always used to say to clients (and now remind my wife and myself) that you should not give away too much to your children (or...
12. Interests in one or more Businesses – and/or Management of Charities, Associations etc.
You may have retired or been an employee during your working life rather than a business owner. However, if you own a business or a share in one, there are important things you need to consider carefully. This brief treatment hardly does the subject justice and so...
11. People to Contact
It’s probably (almost certainly) over simplistic to say that the world divides into two types of people: the organised and the disorganised. And you may be among the former when it comes to keeping contact details, not only of family and friends but also of...
10. The Death Certificate: Having the Necessary Information/Documents
The Death Certificate is confirmation of registration of a death in the UK. A significant change to the process of obtaining it was introduced on 9 September 2024. Now, a Medical Examiner is needed to certify every death except those which come before a coroner. The...
9. Ready Access to Cash pre-Probate: In Case of Need by Your Surviving Spouse/Partner
It can take up to 12 months to obtain a Grant of Probate. This is both confirmation of the validity of the Will and the authority of the Court to the Executors to deal with all your property once you have gone, including bank/building society accounts. In a...
8. Digital Assets
These can present quite a challenge on death, as including: Computer; tablet/iPad; mobile telephone; social media; and Dropbox and other facilities. The key thing of course is what happens with what is likely to be a variety of passwords. These would give...
7. Arrangements for Children, Dependants and Pets
If you have sole (or joint) care for minor children when you (or both, or the survivor, of you) die, then you should have given advance consideration both as to who will take over that care, as seamlessly as possible, and as to what financial provision you might make....
6. Funeral Arrangements
I wonder how many of my LinkedIn readers are well prepared?! Burial or cremation? You may have a clear preference, but have you made it clear which, together with any particular details (for example, the form it should take, where and who should be involved)? In my...
5. Your Will – The Essentials
The vital things are clarity and certainty. The Will should be witnessed by two (disinterested) individuals both present with you, so they sign after you sign. Last week’s Post No. 4 discussed the all-important appointment of Executors. Stating your full name and...
4. Your Will – The Executors(s): Choosing Wisely
I don’t know how often it happens that someone is surprised following a friend’s death to discover that he/she has been named as one or more Executors of a Will? It goes without saying that that should never occur. One should always ask the chosen Executors whether...
3. Why don’t People Make a Will?
OK, some do. But it seems that nearly three out of five adults in the UK (56%) don’t have a Will. Failure to make any preparations for the aftermath of the one thing that’s certain in life (even taxes can be mitigated, if not avoided altogether) does seem a bit crazy....
2. Lasting Powers of Attorney – and Medical Wishes
Learn why a Lasting Power of Attorney (LPA) is essential to protect your finances, health, and wishes if you lose mental capacity.
1. Relationships
Having posted on LinkedIn on a weekly basis over Autumn 2023 my Twenty Top Tips for Getting your Affairs in Order, I have decided to revisit and update the list. The most important thing I now realise is Relationships. Having languished at No. 15, this has definitely...




















